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If you’re searching for a family photographer in Stockport, chances are you want beautiful photos of your children.
But here’s something I gently remind every mum who comes into my Cheadle Hulme studio…
You need to be in the photos too.
As a family photographer in Stockport, I meet so many mums who say:
- “I just want nice ones of the kids.”
- “I don’t like being in photos.”
- “I’ll step in for one at the end.”
But the photos your children will treasure most in 20 years’ time?
The ones with you in them.
The Importance of Family Photos (Backed by Research)
Family photographs are more than wall art. They shape how children see themselves and their place in the world.
Research in developmental psychology shows that children who grow up seeing family photos displayed in their home develop:
- A stronger sense of belonging
- Higher self-esteem
- Greater emotional security
A study published in the Journal of Family Psychology found that adolescents who regularly engaged with family photographs reported higher levels of self-confidence and resilience.
Why? Because photographs reinforce the message:
When your child sees an image of you holding them, laughing with them, or cuddling them, it strengthens their internal narrative of safety and connection.
Why Photos With Mum Matter So Much
In most families, mums are the memory-keepers. The photo-takers. The organisers.
But often, they’re missing from the frame.
Years from now, your children won’t notice:
- Whether you’d had your hair done
- If you’d lost the baby weight
- Whether you felt tired
They’ll see:
- The way you looked at them
- The way you held them
- The warmth in your smile
And those details become part of their emotional memory.
How Family Photography Supports Emotional Development
Visual memory is powerful. Research shows the brain processes images significantly faster than text, and visual memories tend to be more emotionally durable over time.
When children repeatedly see positive images of themselves with their parents:
- It reinforces attachment bonds
- It builds identity
- It strengthens family narrative
Psychologists often talk about the importance of “family stories.” Children who know their family history and see themselves as part of that story tend to cope better with challenges later in life.
Professional family photography becomes part of that story.
Why Professional Family Photography in Stockport Is Different From Phone Snaps
Of course, phone photos are wonderful for everyday moments.
But professional family portraits offer something deeper:
- Intentional connection
- Beautiful natural light
- Calm, guided posing that feels relaxed
- Images designed to last for generations
As a family photographer in Stockport, my sessions are designed to feel natural and unforced. No stiff posing. No awkward smiles. Just genuine connection.
Whether in my Cheadle Hulme home studio with neutral, timeless tones, or outdoors in Greater Manchester during golden hour, the focus is always the same:
Connection over perfection.
What These Photos Mean in 10, 20, 50 Years
Right now, you’re in the busy years.
But one day:
- Your toddler won’t reach for your hand.
- Your baby won’t fit in your arms.
- Your teenager won’t sit on your lap.
Photographs freeze what time inevitably changes.
In 20 years, your child may look at that framed portrait and remember:
- The safety of your hug
- The sound of your laugh
- The feeling of being completely loved
And long after we’re gone, photographs become legacy.
They become proof that:
You were there.
You loved deeply.
You showed up.
Why Stockport Families Are Investing in Family Photography
More and more families in Stockport and Cheadle Hulme are choosing to invest in professional family sessions — not just for Christmas cards, but as part of preserving their family story.
They understand that:
✔ Childhood is fleeting
✔ Digital files get lost
✔ Printed photographs become heirlooms
When displayed in the home, family portraits quietly reinforce love and belonging every single day.
“But I Don’t Feel Confident in Front of the Camera…”
This is the number one thing I hear.
Here’s the truth:
Your children don’t see your insecurities.
They see their mum.
And my job as your family photographer in Stockport is to:
- Guide you gently
- Help you feel relaxed
- Capture natural, flattering angles
- Focus on interaction, not posing
The most powerful images are rarely the perfectly polished ones. They’re the ones where you’re laughing, cuddling, or brushing hair off a little face.
Real. Connected. Honest.
Family Photography Is an Investment in Your Child’s Future
We invest in:
- Education
- Holidays
- Activities
- Home improvements
But photographs are one of the only investments that increase in emotional value over time.
Their importance grows with every year that passes.
And one day, these photos may be among your child’s most treasured possessions.
Looking for a Family Photographer in Stockport?
If you’ve been meaning to book family photos but keep putting it off, consider this your gentle nudge.
Your children don’t need you to look different.
They just need you to be in the frame.
If you’re based in Stockport, Cheadle Hulme, or the surrounding areas of Greater Manchester and would love natural, timeless family portraits that focus on genuine connection, I’d love to chat.
Because one day, these won’t just be photographs.
They’ll be memories your children hold onto forever.
I’m Not Sure It Was Worth Wasting a T-Shirt For…
So we’re nearing the end of week 6. It feels like the longest and shorted 6 weeks of my life all at once. Emotions running high this week. How about you? I know so many people are feeling the same, this week especially for some reason. Perhaps it’s the change in weather, maybe the length of time now….or all the uncertainty. But there are positives when we look for them.
I’m not sure it was worth wasting a t-shirt for but I wanted to share something with you. Something has been happening here that I was sure would never happen. My two starting to get along. With 6 years between them and with Lara being such a dominant character, Roman has found adjusting to life as a big brother difficult over the last few years. They’ve never really got along. Constantly in competition with one another for attention and both at such different ages. However, lockdown has brought them closer together. Don’t get me wrong. They’re not all over each other every day, but they are interacting more lovingly. They play sometimes and laugh, there’s even been cuddles. It has caught me off guard some days and I’ve felt my eyes well-up.



A friend sent me a picture the other day….so I recreated it for fun! I’m not sure it was worth ruining a t-shirt for and the kids really didn’t appreciate being trapped inside Chris’ tiny t-shirt. It made me laugh though!
I’m Not Sure It Was Worth Wasting a T-Shirt For…
How unimpressed does Roman look?









It’s good practice to sit down everyday and think to yourself of all those things you are grateful for that day. So this is something I will always remember and be grateful for of this time. The time that enabled these two to love one another more deeply. <3
Lockdown Week 5-It’s Not All Cake-Baking and Working-Out!
So this week we officially commence ‘Lockdown Week 5’. How are we all really doing?? As I scroll through social media all the posts I see are telling me what I should be doing, how I should be feeling, what to do with the kids and what ‘work-out’ to try next! I’ve had enough of them all now.



How are we all really doing?
Here in the Hopes’ household we are completely free-styling!
I’m sitting here in my pj’s at 1.05 pm with unwashed hair, eating my fourth cupcake of the day whilst writing this. During the last 4 weeks we have attempted home-schooling. It just so turns out, we’re not that great at it! We’ve attempted various crafty/art sessions and sorted the kids’ bedrooms but have now run completely out of steam. The house is a mess to put it mildly, the washing basket overflowing and our sanity is slowly dwindling. We’re trying to get work done where we can, but the challenge is real. I am seeing lots of lovely family photos online. Those taking their daily exercise, going for bike rides, or nice walks. I love seeing these pictures, but sometimes I do start to wonder if I’m failing at this lockdown-life.
Am I being everything I need to be for my kids and those around me? It really isn’t all cake-making and movie nights.
We’re all in this together I hear a lot. This is true but the reality is so different for each and every one of us. We need to be kind to one another and to ourselves during this time and remember this.
The Reality…
For some this period is full of moments of peace and reflection. A time for reconnecting with friends over FaceTime, or for taking up a new hobby from home.
Some face feelings of lonliness and isolation from friends and loved ones. Lacking the opportunity to have any real physical contact with others. The older generation home alone, unable to navigate online shopping or Zoom calls with family. The future looking bleak.
Vulnerable young people thrust into unstable home environments, with no agency support or daily contact with school or support workers.
Single parents juggling the stress and strain of looking after their children/home-schooling and working from home. No break from any of it, cracking under the pressure.
Other parents struggling to fulfil their work commitments whilst taking responibility for their kids’ education. Small toddlers running wild at home whilst on a conference call perhaps.
Those worrying about their job security and what this all means for their livlihood down the line. The self-employed whose business and income have disappeared overnight, with little idea of when or whether they will financially be able to continue doing what they did before.
Many petrified to go out for their daily exercise or to go to the shops.
There are those AMAZING key workers out there keeping this country going. The delivery drivers, the posties, the shop workers, our teachers, the emergency services. Thank you so much to each and every one of you. We owe you so much. The worry and fear you all face right now must be unreal, the NHS workers especially. To you we salute. To you we are grateful.
The families that have lost loved ones. Unable to be there….
We are all in different boats riding a wave of huge uncertainty.
Be the Best You Can Be…That is All
The point to my blog really is that it’s okay not to be okay at the moment. It’s completely normal to feel like you haven’t got your sh*t together. Don’t believe everything you see on social media. These are the highlights of everyone’s week. The reality behind the scenes is very different. Be kind to others, but more than anything else right now…..be kind to yourself. You don’t have to be the best parent in the world, just the best you can be. That is enough, I promise x x x



Grandparenting During Lockdown
I am hearing the term ‘diversify’ a lot at the moment. People mainly referring to businesses at the time of crisis. But one way in which I have seen this term most amazingly used during this pandemic is that of grandparenting! What is Grandparenting during lockdown??
Just this morning I received a message from a friend of mine. With two children at home to entertain 24/7, times are challenging. However her parents who live in Ross on Wye sent her a 7 minute puppet show through this morning especially made for the gradchildren. How AMAZING! Check out this short clip which I posted on my Facebook Page.
Chris’ parents have called the kids a few times for story-time. This has worked really well and given the kids a focus for 10 minutes or so. My eldest has even then read them a few chapters from his David Walliams book. It’s not the same as real-life contact, but it’s the next best thing!



I think it’s lovely and seriously heartwarming to see the ways in which families are communicating at the moment. Whether it be a wave and a chat from the bottom of the driveway during your daily exercise, or a Facetime call. This contact is what is keeping many people going.
I am going to run a competition to honour these wonderful people in our lives. If you would like to nominate your grandparents/parents/parents-in-law or close family friends for a FREE mini-photoshoot to let them know how much you love them then please comment below.
All you have to do is write your name and email address and who you are nominating and why. If you would prefer to send your email address privately then please do via Facebook or Instagram. I will announce the winner at the end of this week and be in touch to arrange.
Keeping a Healthy Immune System During the COVID-19 Pandemic
So we cannot get away from talk about COVID-19. Let’s keep it simple though and talk about our IMMUNE SYSTEM. Having a healthy and happy immune system will help us to fight off the virus should we need to so let’s discuss! I have been chatting with Sophie Beddard (DipCNM) is a qualified nutritional therapist after studying with the College of Naturopathic Medicine.
Sophie’s Advice:
- Step up the veggies
The most obvious but most important. Aim to eat a variety of different coloured foods with every meal. Yellow, orange, red fruits and veggies including leafy greens (spinach kale, collard greens) are rich in immune boosting nutrients and antioxidants including Vitamin C, Beta carotene and Zinc. These nutrients regulate and balance the immune system and can reduce symptoms of respiratory infection, whilst being effective in blocking viruses from multiplying. Be adventurous and throw some veggies into a smoothie! Here is a great Green Energy Smoothie recipe for you!



2. Stay away from the cookie jar
Bored and stressed? I’m sorry to be the bearer of bad news, but consuming too much sugar weakens the immune system cells we need to defend against bad bacteria. Try to curb your sweet tooth by embracing berries, apples, citrus fruits and red grapes. There are lots of online recipes online on how to make healthy sweet treats which can be a fun activity with the kids.
Try these Rasberry and Banana Cookies. You only need 4 ingredients and they taste amazing!
3. Introduce probiotic-rich foods
70-80% of our immune system is located in our gut! This means it is so important to keep the gut as healthy as possible. One way to do this is by consuming probiotic-rich foods such as sauerkraut, cultured live yoghurt, kefir, kombucha. Other important and every day foods include garlic, onions, leeks, asparagus to create a rainbow diet which will help feed that beneficial bacteria to grow. When ingested, the beneficial bacteria populate the intestinal tract and begin to interact with the body in a positive way by training the immune system, manufacturing vitamins and keeping unfavourable bacteria at bay.
Supplementing your diet with a probiotic is also extremely beneficial. Sophie’s recommended brands are Udos and Biocare.
There’s a great programme on Diet and Gut Bacteria that was recently aired on Channel 4! Definitely worth a watch. Fascinating stuff!
3. Keep Hydrated
We need to stay properly hydrated for our body to function optimally and this goes for our immune system too. Regular water intake can even help to wash any lingering pathogens in the throat down into digestive tract. Once there the stomach acid will kill these off. If you become under the weather, fluid keeps the mucous loose and the membranes moist, allowing you to expel excess mucous and phlegm. Bear in mind that alcohol, coffee, tea and caffeine-containing beverages don’t count as water. Limit your caffeine intake. Caffeine acts to remove water from your body, while also leaching water-soluble vitamins and minerals at the same time. Start to introduce immune boosting herbal teas such as ginger, peppermint and echinacea.
4. Address the stress
Easier said than done, I know! It’s impossible to lead a completely stress free life, now more than ever we need to prioritise our daily self-care and relaxation. Stress activates our sympathetic nervous system (fight or flight response), and increases the production of cortisol and adrenaline. While we need this sometimes to run away from the ‘lion’, prolonged stress can supress protective immune responses and increase inflammation within the body. We want to spend more time in the parasympathetic nervous system state (rest and digest). While it’s unrealistic to say goodbye to stress completely, it can be managed through deep breathing exercise and moderate exercise.
Don’t be overwhelmed and try and fit too many things into one day. Make a list of 5 things to focus on whilst you’re staying at home and try to focus on just these. Keep things simple.
4. Exercise, but not too much
Daily exercise relieves stress and assists the body in the elimination of toxins, including viruses and bacteria. Make an effort to take breaks from whatever you’re doing indoors to do a set of push-ups or run up and down the stairs. Here’s an interesting fact for you, studies suggest that if we exercise in nature, we tend to exercise for longer. People who exercise in the outdoors on a regular basis have higher levels of a hormone called serotonin. This reduces tiredness and helps keep us in a happier mood. Here is the part you will really like though….Be mindful of the amount of exercise you are doing. Too much can reduce immunity especially if you aren’t feeling too well to start with. So in theory, too much exercise is not good for your immunity!



5. Focus on improving your sleep routine
For our body to rest, repair, heal and function optimally, we need sleep. This can be easier said than done with little ones of course. Take this time to slow down and focus on implementing a bed time routine. Regulating our natural circadian rhythm (sleep-wake cycle) is imperative when it comes to immune health. Limit exposure to blue light from devices such as phones, T.V. and computers in the evening. These reduce melatonin production (our sleep hormone) which can then significantly affect sleep quality. Turn off the WIFI in your home when you’re sleeping and leave your phone in another room. EMF’s (electromagnetic fields) from these devices may disturb the immune system.
Have an evening bath with relaxing essential oils and magnesium salts. The magnesium found in the salts are absorbed through the skin and help promote a feeling of calm and relaxation. Magnesium can aid sleep quality by regulating melatonin (our sleep hormone) and GABA production (our calming hormone).



6. Be in Nature
Making the most of being at home and look for opportunities to get back into nature. Trees emit certain chemicals (phytoncides) that have been shown to have a positive effect on immunity. Have your morning cup of tea in the garden. Go outside if you need to make a phone call. Natural daylight exposure is great for your body clock, helping you feel more awake and helping your sleep better.
Supplementation can also be a helpful tool to support the immune system. Visit AMARANTH for more information or if you are in need of any supplements during this lockdown period. Amaranth are also making local home deliveries.
Hope this has been helpful! I am going to be bringing you some great and easy family meal recipes later on this week so keep your eyes peeled!







